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Womanofthelaw

I've always been afraid of the IUD but I thought I was laboring under accurate medical advice. Maybe not. I thought there was a risk of puncturing and infection? From the information you conveyed, perhaps my heebie jeebies about the IUD are outdated and/or inaccurate. It is interesting that medical professionals don't ever bring it up.

I'm glad you posted about it.

CM

A friend of mine got a serious infection from an IUD. It just seems like a bad idea to me to have a foreign object implanted inside yourself, unless it's necessary to keep you alive like a pacemaker.

Patrick

My wife & I were true believers in Depo-Provera. We had only 2 problems with Depo: (1) it made my wife "moody" (intentionally understated) for about 48 hours after she got the shot, and (2) despite the allegation that it is 99.9% effective, we now have a 2 1/2 year old son.

dgm

something about putting "wire" and "uterus" too close together just seems wrong. plus, like cm, i'm skeptical of putting foreign objects inside with the intent to keep them there for a long time; it makes me think of those stories where former surgery patients discover gauze pads or scalpels that the doctor forgot to remove from the surgery site.

emma goldman

First off, the problem w/ the Dalkon Shield was the string, yes, but also the shape of the device; it had an unfortunate tendency to embed, IIRC. That is, the device itself may have caused some problems, and the wicking string brought bacteria home to roost in those problems.

On the other hand, I had an IUD (a loop, which may no longer be available?) for about seven years, I think, and had no problems with it. I loved it, as a matter of fact. It had no copper, though; it was all-plastic. It's not for the women who are squeamish about touching themselves, however; one must check regularly to make sure the string is in the right place and the IUD hasn't come out.

Downside: Insertion was extremely painful (LOTS of bad cramping) and the first two periods after insertion were quite bad (heavy bleeding AND cramping), but after that it was fine. (Pain may be less intense with the smaller copper-covered ones?) Eventually, my gynecologist recommended removal, because the string appeared to be irritating my cervix somewhat; she would have put another one in after a few months, if I'd wanted that, but I switched to a diaphragm anyway.

emma goldman

Incidentally, I remember reading somewhere that putting things inside the uterus is an old method of preventing pregnancy--at least with camels. No idea whether it's true.

Also, there used to be some question of whether IUDs were associated with higher rates of ectopic pregnancy; no idea if that's been dis/proven.

turboglacier

Getting your man to have a vasectomy is an excellent alternative to either tubal ligation or IUD. Personally, I wish I could get my vasectomy now, while I'm still young enough to enjoy it, and then have my kids when I'm older and have nothing better to do than raise them. Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way.

Tess

Interestingly, when I was first investigating birth control (I live in the UK) I asked about non hormone options as I am chemical wary and I was told that they would not fit a coil ("English" for IUD) for anyone who had not yet had children. I have no idea why !

PG

Tess,
I wonder if it's easier to put an IUD into a woman who's given birth and whose uterus thus may be shaped or sized differently than a woman who hasn't. Also, if they're wary of the IUD's causing infertility, it seems like a less terrible side effect if the woman already has children. Doctors generally refuse to sterilize women who have no children on the theory that they eventually will regret not being able to have children.

Rayne of Terror

My OB said IUDs are not recommended for women who have not had a child because they are more likely to expell it. But a friend was able to shop around for an OB who would do it and she's now a huge proponent of IUDs. I asked my OB about getting one at my 6 week postpartum check up and she was all for it. She said I'm the ideal candidate and to let them know when to order it. But when you are breastfeeding it is difficult to know when your period is going to be and that is when they insert it, so I don't have one yet.

Monjo

Id never have a vasectomy for a woman. If she doesnt want children, she should take responsibility. And If I want children and the woman Im with doesn't, I'd move on.

Birth control can only be a woman's issue since they desire for complete control over abortion. Cake and eating it, comes to mind.

The IUD/coil seems like a good bet. 99% effective, so still use condoms if worried about STDs or pregnancy (eg having intercourse at olvulation); it doesnt have hormonal nonsense like the Pill - which I believe is gender-bending males; easy to remove?

Still, Im no expert in these matters. I don't worry cos if I get a woman pregnant then I'd be as happy as larry.
Out of interest did you have eggs for breakfast?

Theresa

I have the Mirena IUD in. My midwife ( I live in the US) says that is the current Birth control of choice. And I have a girlfriend that loves it. I hate it. My sex drive is zip, which is NOT normal for me, I'm crankier than a bear woke up during hibernation, and over-sensitive to boot. I've bitten too many heads off lately. Yes, it is effective, yes my periods did stop, and yes it allows you the freedom of whenever, wherever without mess or fuss, but it simply doesn't work for me. So, continue to encourage women to try it, because it will work for many and is certainly better than getting cut!

April Clarke

I had one for eight years and have decided that the only reason our doctors don't push IUD's more is because there is no big pharmaceutical kickback for selling them. I have friend's making their husband's go and get vasectomies- but if I won't let my husband tell me what sort of contraception to use how could I turn around and force him under that same knife? Oh, and Mr. "CM" If the brakes in you car DIDN'T WORK would you recommend them to others? After I have our second child I'm going back to the IUD for as long as I need it. Knives are for apples.

April Clarke

P.S.
Just be sure to get the one that is Non-Hormonal. Some IUD's are embedded with unnecesary and sometimes harmful chemicals.

miseryIUD

I currently have a nonhormonal IUD and it's misery. I've had it for a year and a half now, and my periods are so heavy and painful I just made an appt. to pull the plug. I wanted something without the hormones and thought this was the ticket. I've tried every type of B.C. (pills, ring, shot, etc.) and they all have their side effects (acne, weight gain...) Really talk to you doctor before making this decision, especially if you haven't given birth before.

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